I AM SO FURIOUS AND HURT!?

what did u expect.. ?? did u really think this guy "loved u"?? no.. u were just a temporary call, and he's pissed cause it all blew up in his face.. u were lucky enough to have a husband that forgave u for cheating on him.. he's not so lucky with his wife obviously...and instead of being accountable for his actions he's trying to put all the blame on you, he's doing it in the letter, he's doing it with his wife.. he's making u out to be the seductress, that seduced him and made him do things .. please.. he knew what he was doing, he's just looking for excuses, and trying to blame it on u , so he doesnt have to blame himself .. and his idiot wife, is buying into it all.. blaming u for what her husband did to her.. just ignore it.. their drama will eventually subside.. and more then likely they will either split up, or she'll be stupid enough to forgive him, and once she does, he'll do it again.. cheaters that refuse to be accountable for their actions and blame others , always end up cheating again..